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A Note From 2014

In 2014, I reflected on Facebook’s true cost: our data. From location to preferences, everything was monetized. Even quitting didn’t erase the digital trail. Over time, the platform’s terms changed, yet we stayed, driven by social connections.

Back in 2014, I wrote a quick note on my phone about Facebook. At the time, I was realising how much of our personal data we handed over just by being there: who we know, what we like, where we go, what we watch. It wasn’t just ours anymore. Facebook used that data to serve ads and grow their business.

The note touched on something that still feels true today: this exchange of personal information for a “free” service. Even back then, I was uneasy with how the platform’s terms kept changing (sometimes in small, subtle ways) and how users just went along with it. You’d think about quitting, but then remember how many friends and family members were on there. Social pressure kept everyone connected, even if you didn’t agree with what was happening to your data.

If I closed my account, I knew my data would remain. And I knew the ads wouldn’t stop. If anything, Facebook would still find ways to serve me ads through their vast network. The power of their data collection was far-reaching, and walking away wasn’t as simple as just hitting “delete.”

That’s where I left it in 2014. A quiet frustration, a growing awareness of how little control we actually had. Fast forward nearly ten years, and I’m still thinking about it.

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By Jonathan Pay

With over 18 years of experience in email marketing, Jonathan is the world’s first second-generation email marketer. Having worked for service providers, agencies, and brands, he brings along an understanding of code, design, and strategy with a focus on excellent customer experiences.

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